They fear they aren’t interesting and will bore their date, hence make a fool of themselves. But let me tell you something: it’s just thoughts, and your thoughts aren’t facts.The fear is real, I get that, I’ve felt it many times!You could also play a game where, for every point scored, the person who earned the point gets to ask a question.
These questions are key primers, the ones to ask after you’ve said hello, and settled in somewhere comfortable.
[Read: 60 get-to-know-you questions for a new romance] Questions about trust and fundamentals First up is the fundamentals.
These will help you to determine whether you could date this person seriously, or if your ideals are too far apart for your liking.
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A foolproof way to ensure that conversation will always be flowing is to simply your date things, although—given the fact that we never know how comfortable others are with casual conversation—that might be easier said than done. Where exactly do you live in [insert your city or town here]? Questions over the first drink should be an equal mix of inquisitive and casual, and should allow you to start gauging his or her true personality.