My girlfriend is coming over.” Let him live in his own filth, or clean it up!? This kind of big favor is okay occasionally, but if your guy asks it of you on a regular basis, you’re being taken advantage of. You’re not your boyfriend’s cab driver; you’re his girlfriend.
How long has it been since your guy helped you achieve your peak in bed? Don’t make excuses to your friends for your guy when he acts antisocial. It’s that maternal instinct popping up: you see a helpless guy, stumbling around barely able to talk and you say, “I can help you! ” Or, perhaps you don’t think it’s “ladylike” of you to get drunk in front of your guy, so you always DD. Even though you’re a vegetarian, you make steak for your guy every time he comes over (which is a lot) and then on the side make yourself a vegetarian meal.
As a single guy who occasionally crushes, it's a constant danger, and a fine line to walk (showing interest, but not too much interest), but the fact that he was gabbing to his coworkers and family about you after two weeks is a little odd.
I live in Las Vegas where I attend UNLV (I'm in a fraternity), play in a kick-ass rock band, AND work as a bouncer in a nightclub on the Strip. By the way, I love it when guys write in to me and say "I don't want to use the things you teach because I don't like the idea of MANIPULATING women." Then I ask "Do you buy women dinner, or take them out? Yes, it can be done, but "nice" isn't the way to do it. It took me a good 2 years just to BEGIN to get a handle on what was going on.Now, given my situation, one would think that I'm just ROLLING in women, yet the only game I get is from older chicks and gay dudes. Question #2 I recently had surgery and during that time a female "surgical consultant" gave me guidelines of what the surgery would be like and how to prepare for it. The problem is we have talked on the phone about the surgery and the results and finances with insurance. It took me another year or so, AFTER I started to understand, to actually get GOOD.And when I do go out with hotties, I can't get them to call me back; girls my age just aren't attracted to me like they used to be. The problem is that it's only been on a professional level. After all that, I spent quite a bit of time writing notes to myself, discussing the techniques that I've learned and created, and putting it all together. Well, now I have several great programs that I've designed to help teach guys how to meet and date women successfully. It ALSO focuses on THE WHY, and the WHEN, and the HOW.He will told that he needs to be a gentleman, be patient and essentially treat the woman like a Disney princess, even though she’s just a normal, everyday girl.On top of all that, a guy will often overhear women say things like, With all that combined, is it any wonder that millions guys across the globe grow up believing that being “nice” is the key to getting a woman and then keeping her interested when in a relationship? Some nice guys believe that texting and phoning their girlfriend all the time is the best way to let her know how important she is to him.